Why Am I Getting Emails From Hinge? What Each One Means

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Alex Carter

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Why Am I Getting Emails From Hinge? What Each One Means

A Hinge email means an account uses that address, someone typed it in, or it's phishing. What each one means, how to check, and how to stop them.

You haven't thought about Hinge in a long time, maybe ever. Then an email with its name lands in your inbox, or in the family account you share, and the subject line sounds a lot more personal than an ad.

It's normal to stop and wonder what it means. The answer depends almost entirely on which kind of email it is, and Hinge's own Help Center is more useful here than you'd expect.

Short answer: a Hinge email is one of three things. A real email to an address linked to a Hinge account, a real email triggered because someone typed that address into Hinge, or a phishing email using Hinge's name. Real Hinge emails come from addresses ending in @hinge.co, and Hinge says it will never email you asking for your password.

This page covers the emails Hinge actually sends and what each implies, the case where you don't have an account, how to spot a fake, how to stop them, and what to make of one in a partner's inbox.

The emails Hinge actually sends

Hinge's Help Center mentions several kinds of email. Each one means something slightly different, so it's worth identifying yours before drawing conclusions.

A confirmation code. Hinge accounts start with a phone number, then a second step: "Link an Email Address to your account. Once you receive a confirmation email, enter the code to verify." A code email means someone entered this address while setting up or editing a Hinge account. On its own, it doesn't mean the step was completed.

Notification emails. Hinge's notifications can come by email as well as by push, and members choose which: "Tap Push Notifications or Emails to make changes." These go to the address linked to an existing account.

Subscription emails. Receipts and renewal notices for Hinge+ or HingeX. Hinge notes that these can go to a different inbox: it tells subscribers to use "the email address where you receive Hinge Subscription emails, even if it's different from the email linked to your Hinge account." The billing side is covered in our page on what Hinge shows up as on a bank statement.

Content and safety emails. If Hinge removes something from a profile, a member may get "An email guiding you to open the Hinge app and update your content." Appeal decisions are also confirmed by email.

Fraud warnings. In Colorado, Hinge says it sends "email notifications to Colorado users who have exchanged messages with a member who we have banned due to known or suspected fraudulent behavior."

Research invitations. Hinge runs surveys and interviews, and says "Research will only contact you via our official @hinge.co email addresses."

The common thread: apart from the confirmation code, every one of these goes to an address attached to an account.

"But I don't have a Hinge account"

This is the case people find most unsettling, and it usually has a dull explanation.

Someone typed your address by mistake. People mistype their own email all the time, one letter off, or the wrong domain. If your address is short or common, you'll get other people's mail from many services, not only Hinge. A single confirmation code that's never followed by anything else fits this best.

Someone used your address on purpose. Less common, but it happens: a person signs up with an address that isn't theirs to avoid giving their own. Hinge can't verify the address without the code, so the account can't confirm it through you.

An old account you forgot. If you ever tried Hinge, even briefly years ago, an account can still be linked to that address. Hinge says that "Uninstalling the app won't delete your account." Notifications keep going to the address until the account is deleted.

It isn't from Hinge. See the next section.

If the emails don't stop and you never had an account, you can write to Hinge from its Help Center and ask them to check which account the address is attached to.

Real or phishing: how to check without clicking

Fake emails using dating apps' names are common, and Comparitech lists fake "Hinge support" messages among the scams aimed at Hinge users. A few checks settle most of them.

Look at the sender's domain. Hinge says official research emails come only from "@hinge.co", and asks people to report anything that looks like it's from Hinge when "the address doesn't end in @hinge.co." An email analytics service reports that Hinge's mail comes from hinge.co and mail.hinge.co. Anything else, including lookalikes with extra words or letters, is a red flag.

Look at what it asks. Hinge states: "Hinge will never send you an email asking for your username and password information." It also says it "will never ask you to connect remotely to your computer," and warns that "many fake customer support numbers are posted on various websites, none of which are affiliated with Hinge."

Don't click to find out. If you want to know whether a notification is real, open the Hinge app yourself, if you have an account, instead of using the email's link.

Never pass on a code. A confirmation code is only useful to whoever is trying to verify the address. If someone asks you to forward one, that's a scam. The text message version works the same way, as our page on an unexpected Hinge verification code explains.

For the same checks applied to Tinder, with its own sender details, see how to tell if a Tinder email is real or spam.

How to stop Hinge emails

If it's your account and you want to keep it: Hinge's settings let you switch emails off. Tap your photo icon, then the gear icon, scroll to Notifications and tap Emails. Hinge says a purple toggle means a notification is on.

If you want them gone for good: Hinge says "If you ever want to unsubscribe from Hinge emails, just click Unsubscribe in the footer of any Hinge notification email." Only use that link in an email you've confirmed is real.

If you want the account gone: delete it from the app's settings ("Delete Account" at the bottom). Removing the app isn't enough. And if there's a subscription, cancel it too. Hinge says deleting the app or the account doesn't cancel subscriptions bought through Apple or Google.

If it's not your account: don't log in to it, even if you could. Write to Hinge and ask them to look into the account using your address.

When the email is in your partner's inbox

This is a different situation, and it's fine to admit it stings. A Hinge email in a shared inbox, or one you glimpsed on your partner's screen, raises a question that the email alone can't fully answer.

Read the type before the subject line.

A confirmation code. Someone typed that address into Hinge. It could be a stranger's typo, or a sign-up from this household. The timing helps: was your partner on their phone right then?

A notification about likes or matches. These go to an address linked to an account. That's more than a typo. It still doesn't tell you whether the account is recent or forgotten.

A receipt or renewal. Someone paid for Hinge+ or HingeX, with that address as the billing contact.

A research invitation. Hinge sends these to members, so it also points to an account linked to that address.

Say it's a notification about new likes, on a Thursday evening, on an address only your partner uses. That's worth a direct question. Now say it's a single confirmation code from three months ago, never followed by anything. That reads very differently.

What we wouldn't do: log in to their inbox or their Hinge account to see more. It's getting into accounts that aren't yours, and what you'd learn wouldn't settle more than a conversation would. If the answer you get is "it's an old account I forgot", our page on a dating profile he says he forgot to delete helps you weigh it. For the broader picture of dating emails in a spouse's inbox, see why a husband gets emails from dating sites.

Checking whether a Hinge profile exists

An email tells you an account may be tied to an address. Whether a profile is visible on Hinge is a separate fact, and it can be checked from outside. Our guide to how to know if someone is on Hinge covers the free ways first.

CheatEye looks for a specific person from a first name, an age, a gender and a city, with an optional photo. It searches Tinder by default and Hinge with its other-apps option, along with Bumble, Happn and OkCupid. If a profile turns up, the report shows what's on it, starting with the bio and photos. The person isn't notified. A search costs $17.90 and the option $12.90.

It doesn't search by email address, so the address that got the email plays no part, and it doesn't search by phone number either. It shows no messages and no live location. A profile that turns up is something to talk about, not a verdict. If you find one, our page on Hinge's active status explains what its activity labels can tell you.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why am I getting emails from Hinge? Either an account is linked to your address, someone typed your address into Hinge (often by mistake), or the email is phishing. Check the sender's domain and what the email asks you to do.

Does Hinge send emails if you don't have an account? It can send a confirmation code if someone enters your address during sign-up. Regular notifications go to addresses linked to an account.

What email address does Hinge use? Hinge says its research emails come only from @hinge.co addresses. An email analytics service reports hinge.co and mail.hinge.co as Hinge's sending domains.

How do I stop getting emails from Hinge? Turn off emails in the app's Notifications settings, or click Unsubscribe in the footer of a genuine Hinge notification email. Deleting the account stops them for good.

Does deleting the Hinge app stop the emails? No. Hinge says uninstalling the app doesn't delete the account, so notifications can keep coming.

Is an email from Hinge asking for my password real? No. Hinge says it "will never send you an email asking for your username and password information."